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Remembering

December 1st, 2006 | No Comments | Posted in Health Related

The world is remembering that AIDS is a killer, and it is not going away. In fact, some studies are showing that perhaps AIDS and HIV are on the rise as people become complacent. Another cause too is the growing lack of understanding. You would think that after 25 years leaders would understand that to simply ignore this disease puts everyone at risk. It also increases an already heavily burdened health care system under immense strain.

Whether you have National Health or not, the cost to all taxpayers exists because the so called Religious Right deem this illness to be a moral issue. One many conservatives like Bush embrace and so as a result, we fail the next generation in not just teaching them math skills, but in teaching them how to survive diseases like HIV and AIDS. By making ‘abstinence’ the only proper sex education tactic, we ignore the reality of life. Kids are becoming more active sexually at an earlier age.

Despite the concerns some parents have about their middle school child being taught about sexually transmitted diseases and safe sex practices, Harmon said it’s necessary because children are becoming sexually active at younger ages. (full story)

As we mark this day, maybe we should do more than Light A Candle or even Make A Donation to the National AIDS Fund. Maybe, we should start listening to what we know is right. Perhaps we can start with ourselves even. Maybe instead of using lame excuses that condoms don’t feel right, we should embrace them until a 100% safe method is found. Instead of hiding, we should go out and be TESTED to make sure we aren’t passing this disease on to our sex partners.

Sure we can’t be held accountable for what others do. However, we can and should be held accountable for what we do. So yes it means we go get a jab by some needle every six months and we wait nervously for the results. Still, it is better to know than not. Least with all the advances in medical science being diagonosed with HIV isn’t as it used to be. We can still lead normal and productive lives, if we choose. But only if WE KNOW!

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60’s Generation Gone Missing

October 5th, 2006 | No Comments | Posted in Old Age, Ramble On, World View

I was around then and I remember some of that era, the one noted as the Love Generation and how everyone was preaching peace, love, and understanding. I recall coming home from school to the news of John Kennedy being assisinated, and I can even recall when his brother Robert was murdered as well. I can even now see that horrid image on the news of a soldier pointing his gun at the head of a Viet Namese clad in torn tshirt and shorts and pulling the trigger.

I can still see the tiny figure in grey saluting as the gun carraige moved passed him, the flag draped coffin in the back, the empty riderless horse alongside. I felt the tears then and even now as I remember that moment in time, when a generation stood still in grief and pain. Yet it didn’t stop, it didn’t surrender to the dark forces of the world or the evil that some did.

I recall all that and in looking back see how the sight of dead people was everywhere. The war in Viet Nam was in full bloom and students took to the streets in protest and then too there was the clashes at the Democratic Convention. I saw it happen and I look around today and wonder…

What happened to that Generation? Where did they disappear to?

Surely what happened then is no different than what is happening today. In the early 1960’s I might have been too young to fully understand the Cuban Missile Crisis but I saw the fear etched on everyones face as the whole mess unfolded, and I look at Iran and North Korea today and shake, wondering again, how did we all let this come about?

You have people of religion not marching on Selma to right a wrong, but instead preaching about Hate and how evil others are simply because they believe differently in God than them. Or you see men of religion, including the Pope, condemning world leaders because they dare to reach out to a minority in their own country and give them equality. What happened to all those Priests, Pastors, and Preachers who walked side by side with Martin Luther King Jr on the road to Selma?

I remember the election campaign where a Republican pledged to end a war of aggression no matter what and then turn around and commit a crime and walk away in disgrace. I recall the news of a convention divided but where you knew exactly where every candidate stood on the war, on civil rights, and today I see those same parties sling more mud than at an all girl mud wrestling tournament.

What happened to that outspoken and idealistic Generation? Where did they disappear to?

50 years ago we had just finished the second middle east war, one where the United States first entered the region to meddle in its affairs. We saw them then push Israel back from its gains, promising that there would be no more wars there. We saw Presidents preach about Peace and new trade barriers and yet no one needed to secretly wire tap the nation, or hold people in secret prisons. They wouldn’t dare think of it, let alone commit those types of outright civil right violations, and yet today it is accepted practise, even legislated under the two Patriot Acts.

Where did that generation go so wrong?

We in Canada had a superior fighter jet and yet our Government surrendered it to the Americans, all in the name of appeasement, and despite continued efforts of good friendship, we are still ignored and trod on like some vermin or ant. Despite losing that entire market, we still reached out in friendship with NAFTA by the successor to the Diefenbacker sell out, and that too failed. Still Canada kept faith with America and took in its citizens and aircraft in time of danger, and now, five years later we get a semi thank you and once more, we have chosen a government that is willing to sell us out at the drop of a pin.

Yet it was Canada who was the bastion of Freedom for those Americans who abhorred war and fled. It was Canada that opened its arms and borders to those flying from death and mayhem and murder in Asia and here we are, five decades later trying to once more get in bed with the biggest bully left on the block. What ever happened to that generation of Peace Makers like Lester Pearson and Trudeau who realized that sex was not the jurisdiction of Governments but of the people?

Where did all those from the 60’s generation disappear to?

I suppose they all grew up and became today’s Republicans, New Conservatives and still I wonder, where did they all disappear to? How did the values of then suddenly become redundent and inconsequential in the name of Conservativism? How did we all suddenly wake up and no longer feel for our brothers, our sisters, our cousins and cease to have the real spirit of God, the one of compassion and love? Where did it all go?

They had such promise back then. To end wars, to bring about Freedom all over the world, and to stand and oppose those who would take that freedom from their hands. They took to the streets, to roads in the deep south, and they won. It cost a lot in blood, sweat, and tears, but they won. They ended a blood bath in Asia and they brought about social changes. African Americans were no longer were hunted down and lynched because a bunch of men told others to do that, to do it because of the color of their skin. They no longer thought of Black people as sub human and unworthy of the same rights as other citizens. Women were given control over their own bodies, something many in the Arab nations like Iraq, Afghanistan, Iran still are fighting for.

Humanity took center stage in the world, and it was those from the 60’s that led the way not in rhetoric, but in action and with courage. They stood up to the old political hacks and fought them in the streets of their own cities, not in newspaper by lines or on news shows, but out in the cold bleak streets. They stood up the batons and blue clad men on horseback, and they won. They valued honor, integirty, compassion, and justice more than their own lives, as three young men showed in Alabama as did others.

Pulpits rang with the truth of God’s words, not with words of hatred and racism like today. The people spoke and the world shuddered and changed, and now, where has that generation gone? Where have they disappeared to?

If you find them, tell them they are needed again. Tell them that the world is not better as they had hoped and fought for. Tell them all, tell those of the 60’s to come back and reclaim what they had fought for so hard for back then. Tell them, time is running out. 

One, Two, Three, and …

July 19th, 2006 | No Comments | Posted in Gaystoryman Opinions, Obesity, Ramble On

So it really is interesting trying to lose some weight. So far, knock on wood, I have managed to more or less keep to the diet of just cutting back on the portions rather than anything specific, like calorie counting or whatever.

In looking at this, I know I need to also exercise more and with a 9 month old pooch around, that perhaps should be easier to do than it is. I suppose part of it is being lazy, but also I think it is the conditioning.

our Molly

No, not pumping iron conditioning but that of society itself. I mean somehow there just doesn’t seem to be time to get out and take the pooch out. Now Dave does in the morning but I kind of want to take to her out at night just never seems to be time.

By the time I get the next day’s groceries, do the after dinner routines, it is nearly time to head up and spend time with Mom. When that is over, time for Dave to head off to sleep for work in the morning. So I suppose I could go then, but I keep putting it off, and to be honest I would rather go with Dave along. Selfish I suppose but I do enjoy his company even though we been married for eons it seems.

Maybe I can get my fat ass in gear to re-arrange this so I can get out with the dog and Dave. Should help and somehow I figure I should too. 

Baking

July 17th, 2006 | No Comments | Posted in Gaystoryman Opinions, Obesity, Old Age, Ramble On

Man this is weird I think. Talking about what one is doing each day is sort of, well odd when you consider youself basically shy and an introvert. Oh well guess that is the price of being a webmaster, you sort of change as time goes on.

So I figured tonight I will bake some bran muffins. Going to throw in some thawed frozen raspberries in along with golden raisins. I prefer the golden as they are juicier and taste better. Strange thing is that I really am not much of a baker these days. Used to make cakes & stuff but somehow, ever since Dad passed away I havent’ done much baking other than muffins.

Guess to with trying to lose some weight not a great past time either. Though why should Mom and Dave suffer? Not fair but hell, life isn’t fair either. Though I think some nice bran muffins are in order. I mean it is something I won’t mind munching on for the morning and hell of a lot better for me than say some pre cooked sausages or bacon.

Night Time Snacks

July 17th, 2006 | No Comments | Posted in Gaystoryman Opinions, Obesity, Ramble On

I suppose that when your schedule is a fucked as mine, it does make things harder. Like Dinner is supposed to be the last meal but I find my midnight snack is.

I generally pull the plug at 2 to 3am and about midnight I need something. So lately its been a bowl of frozen raspberries and some crackers. Perhaps even a cookie or two (one of those no sugar added lifestyle ones) and yes, a MacDonalds ice cream cone.

Course I also find I am drinking more water at night than during the day which is perhaps something I need to alter. Given the warm days I think maybe I should be drinking more in the day so as to not get dehydrated.

Wish there was some simple way to manage all this.

No More KFC

July 16th, 2006 | No Comments | Posted in Gaystoryman Opinions, Obesity, Ramble On

Well I think that it was a mistake to order in KFC. Tried their summer bucket deal with half regular recipe and the other half their new hot ‘n spicy. Frankly, the new stuff sucks. Wasn’t hot in my book nor spicy really. Plus it was over cooked I think.

In fact I’d say it was just extra battered chicken with some spices thrown in not in the regular recipe. Oh well that may have been the least of it for me.

I think fried food is just not gonna cut it for me these days. Used ot enjoy it but tonight it seemed to aggravate my blood sugar and felt rather weak after dinner. Almost like passing out really so I think we cut that out of the diet. Plus I know, fried food just isn’t gonna help in lowering the waist line, so no more KFC or such.

Man, like I said, this gonna be fun…. NOT! 

Maybe tomorrow?

July 16th, 2006 | No Comments | Posted in Gaystoryman Opinions, Obesity, Ramble On

I think perhaps one of the biggest obstacles is actually starting this shit. I mean seriously, you look at a long road of cutting back or down and it is a bit scary really.

Course the other headache is balancing being diabetic and not eating too much. See, in order to not get all screwed up they tell you to eat several times a day rather than just the basic 3 meals. Course for me, this means actually eating more than I am used to, which is perhaps one reason why I need to lose this tonnage.

My past was that rarely for the last 30 odd years have I eaten lunch or breakfast. Always had a big dinner, and then the mdinight snacks. This diabetes stuff is a pain though, so now its a matter of adjusting one’s routine and that never is easy.

So far today, one sandwhich and two cups of coffee with milk and one equal per cup. Better than what it used to be which was three or four sugar per cup.

Now for dinner, well its warm here so the wife and all have elected to order in. KFC which really isn’t a good choice given its fried, but fuck I deserve a break. No way am I cooking tonight.

So the count is 1 tuna salad sandwich on brown. This gonna be a bitch.